Black (not White) has a 5 point komi to compensate for a kyu grade difference in strength. Black started at tengen (K10) and has mirrored every move you've done.
(;AB[jj]AW[pc]AB[dq]AW[qe]AB[co]AW[qp]AB[cd]AW[oq]AB[ec]AW[dc]AB[pq]AW[pp]AB[dd]AW[cp]AB[qd]AW[pd]AB[dp]AW[pj]AB[dj]AW[jd]AB[jp]AW[hj]AB[lj]AW[hl]AB[lh]AW[hk]AB[li]AW[hi]AB[lk]AW[hh]AB[ll]AW[il]AB[kl]AW[ih]AW[lg]AB[im]AW[mh]AB[hm]AW[mi]AB[gl]AW[mj]AB[gk]AW[mk]AB[gj]AW[ml]AB[gi]AW[lm]AB[gh]AW[km]AB[kh]AW[kg]AB[hg]AB[ig]AW[jg]AB[jm]AW[ki]AB[ik]AW[kk]AB[ii]AW[kj]AB[ij]C[White to make Black stop mirroring by getting a decisive lead.]AP[goproblems]
(;W[jl];B[jh]
(;W[ji]C[White is now ahead in points and although the outside of the group is still mirrored, White does not have to worry about cutting points like Black does (G13, G7).RIGHT]MA[gg]MA[gm])
(;W[jk];B[ji]))
(;W[ji];B[jl]
(;W[jk];B[jh]C[White must play J10 to make the center group live. Outside of this group it is still a mirror. Black still leads because of the komi.]MA[ij])
(;W[jh];B[jk]C[Still mirroring.]))
(;W[jh];B[jl]
(;W[ji];B[jk]C[Still mirroring.])
(;W[jk];B[ji]))
(;W[jk];B[jh]
(;W[jl];B[ji])
(;W[ji];B[jl]C[White must play J10 to make the center group live. Outside of this group it is still a mirror. Black still leads because of the komi.]MA[ij])))